Christian dating draw line
I do mean that you must seriously contemplate and establish your boundaries.
I had to have this talk too, and I probably did it a little late.
There comes a time when you need to have a serious conversation, with yourself and your significant other.
Of course, I don’t mean you have to literally talk to yourself – that would be strange.
And it will spare you from having a standard set for you by a mere human, a standard which might change tomorrow. And this is a rule which applies not only to Sundays, but also to Friday and Saturday nights!
The subject of sexual purity is extremely important. It is of eternal importance, because the sexually immoral do not inherit the kingdom of God (I Cor. This will spare you from having to hear my opinion and about my experiences. The only rule for faith and life is the Word of God.
We must not be as open on this subject as the unbelieving world is today.
The Bible verse I believe best explains the reasons for purity is, 1 Corinthians 13:4.It was such a relief to have discussed something so vital; it brought us closer. Yet, that is a really important part of someone and it speaks volumes about who they are.Before you ever have the boundaries conversation with your other half, you need to clearly define your own boundaries.Almost as important as purity itself, is the reason why. Now, applying the Bible’s truth is great, and reason enough for anything, but you need to find out why you want to stay pure.
There are the practical reasons like, avoiding STD’s and unplanned pregnancy, but I believe it is much more than that.
If we truly love someone we need to be patient with them physically until we are bonded by marriage.” Clearly we need to be patient with our men in other situations, and with other people; however, I find it so beautiful that this verse can apply to our purity. Personally, I have decided I am comfortable with holding hands and kissing. So, although I can’t tell you specifically where to you’re your line, I can tell you that it is necessary to contemplate your boundaries. Pray about it, and share an understanding with your man so you don’t cross the line. Where do you draw the line in your own relationships?